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		<title>At Work</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86846</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-04-02T20:44:17 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>abc_123</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Hello, I'm new here.  This might be a little long.<br /><br />A week ago I had a seizure and I went back to work this week.  I'm back on meds, and I can't drive for 6 months.  With family members working, I have to ask my co-workers to take me to and from work.  Taking me to work isn't the problem, it's taking me home!!  When I ask, they say, "Go ask someone else they live right close".   It's like nobody wants to help me out!!  All the ones I'm asking live close to me!  And not only that, I'm being treated differently.  The ones I'm very close to hardly speak to me anymore, let alone look at me!  They whisper to each other and I know they're  talking about me because they look right at me!!  It's like they're turning their backs to me.  I haven't done anything wrong, only I've been very quiet because of the way I've been feeling after my seizure, I'm sure ya'll know what I'm talking about.  It's so damn frustrating it makes me cry!  I'm still able to do the tasks I've always done, maybe a little slower than I used to be.<br /><br />Has anyone been in this position?  What the heck should I do?  I'm thinking about going to my HR and talk to her about my issues (she said that she'll help if I have any problems).  I'm almost at the point where I don't want to go to work because of all this mess.  Anybody, please help!!!<br /><br />~Apryl]]></description>
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		<title>BRAND NEW eCommunities! READ ME!</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86792</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-03-24T15:35:09 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>szymanski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Attention all eCommunities members:</BR>
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Because of all the requests from so many eCommunities members - and because the Epilepsy Foundation eCommunities are so very important to so very many people, we here at the Foundation have searched high and low for a new system that might give all our eCommunities constituents the ability to once again share photos and links - and, for the first time ever, also share videos, blogs and other material!</BR>
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You might have heard something about the change to the new and improved system over the past several months, because we've been working on it for quite a long time.</BR>
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The new site (which can be accessed by www.epilepsyfoundation.org/ecommunities, along with several of the other front and side eCommunity links you've used over the past few years), which you must register for (your current eCommunities profile will not move over - we are NOT migrating accounts over), is live now. If you've always wanted to have a new name, now's the chance to change it!</BR></BR>
The old site will be available until at least Thursday, 3/26/09. After that, it will become read-only, which means you will be able to copy messages from those forums for a while. Once the old site goes to read-only you will no longer be able to access your private messages (PMs), so you copy any of those you wish to keep as soon as you possibly can.</BR></BR>
If you have any questions or concerns about the site, you should (1) ping the EF moderator, (2) contact me,  (3) post your question in the Announcements/FAQ forum: http://epilepsyfoundation.ning.com/forum/topics/2217546:Topic:1621. You should check out the FAQ and User Guide as soon as you've created your new account so that you can familiarize yourself with the new system and learn more about all that you'll be able to do with it. By checking these areas first, you'll probably figure out most of your questions for yourself pretty quickly and easily, since a lot of us think the site is pretty intuitive.</BR>
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Because of the issues we've had in the past about pictures, we're using an approval system for photos and videos with the new forums. What this means is that you can't directly post photos or videos to the site. You'll post them, we'll approve them (unless there is a problem with them), and then they'll go up. We don't know how long this system will continue for, since it depends on whether or not we have any problems with folks trying to post inappropriate material. I know everyone is eager to start posting photos again, and I'm hoping this system will make everyone happier, since your photos and videos should eventually make it up onto the site.</BR></BR>
We are very excited about this new site launch, and I'm really hoping this new site will alleviate and solve problems with downtime, log-in errors and other problems. This new site is a full-featured, robust, social networking platform that will allow users to upload messages, photos and videos, as well as keep blogs and do all sorts of other nifty things.</BR></BR>
I hope everyone finds the new eCommunities as fun and exciting as me and the rest of our team here at the Foundation do - now just hop on over to the new area and create your new identity before the online name you really, really want gets taken!</BR></BR>
Therese
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		<title>Seizure at Work</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86504</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-03-13T10:30:50 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>wakim82</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ I recently had a seizure at work, after being seizure free for about 5 years.  My supervisor told me to take the next two days off as I was being wheeled into the ambulance, that I repeatedly told them I didn't need.  I proceeded to take one day off and work a 7 hour day the day after that.  Policy at my job is that if you miss over 2 days for a health issue you are required to submit a form signed by a doctor releasing me to go back to work.  My district supervisor still asked me to submit the form, since I hit my head and required stitches, but he told me I could work until I got the form filled out.  I went to a doctor, got the form filled out, but my doctor wouldn't release me to lift more than 15 lbs.  Yes I understand that if I have another seizure while I'm carrying something heavy I could hurt myself, but if I have one while I'm crossing the street out on a run I run the same risks with how people drive around here.  I was bumped up to 50 lbs by my neurologist, but he told me imposed the restrictions of no ladders and no sharp objects.  Well I have to get on a ladder at work, and I have to use a box cutter quite frequently.  Now I got this letter from my corporate office saying they are "happy" to "temporarily" accommodate these restrictions, but that they can at any time decide when they don't want to continue with these accommodations, and that I am required to see a doctor every 30 days until fully released or until it is decided that this condition is static and will not improve.  Well I know my seizure disorder won't go away, and I know I only had my seizure because I missed my meds one day, and was exposed to an extremely stressful, extremely abnormal situation at work.  Neither of my current doctors seem to care or understand that I may loose my job if they do not release me, my direct superior at work has already flat out said I'm either going to be terminated or demoted, even though he really has no say in the matter.  What am I supposed to do? My doctors have basically told me I can't do any job I have training for, no lifting and no ladders means no labor, no retail management, no sharp objects means no cooking, and no heavy machinery means I can't even fall back to work for my family's farm.  This means no medical insurance, which means I won't be able to afford my medication and doctor visits, not to mention my wife's prescriptions which are over $300 a month.  So am I just supposed to collect disability and unemployment benefits because I have had 6 seizures in my entire life?  Am I supposed to sue my current employer if they do terminate me or decide to never promote me because of this?  It just makes no sense to me, because I do these things that my doctors won't release me to do at work at home, I mean I know eventually I'm going to have another seizure, but I can't cut out every normal part of my life just because I might get hurt.]]></description>
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		<title>Does missing a dose increase chance of having an episode?</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86476</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-03-12T09:43:13 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>ebj1209</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Hello  <br /><br />I was just wondering has anyone had a seizure arise from missing a dose. I had an episode on Monday at work, and they actually were frantic on how to handle. <br /><br />That they called the medics and I was taken to the hospital. The episode was minor it started with Aura which I can predict arising and went into a mild seizure. <br /><br />Which I am always conscious as to what is happening around me. When the aura arose i just sat on the floor and laid down.]]></description>
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		<title>frustrated / new member here</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86446</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-03-10T20:25:55 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>alexiath26003</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Well I'm new to this whole chat thing here so let's see how it goes :) I'm looking for others points a view on something I Just experienced . I Just learned last Friday i was fired from my Job due to many absence's of course due to my  Epilepsy . funny thing is I didn't know I was fired until I went under my account to check my last pay check stub on my companies website . I had given my two week notice , and my manager told me they were really frowning on my situation so instead of Tuesday being my last day they would make Friday my last day . NOW ALL my life I have let my employers know about my situation because God forbid something happened at work and they had no idea what they were dealing with . I have had  Epilepsy since I was two months old I am now 26 years old , not to mention I under went two brain surgeries to correct the  Epilepsy about four years ago and have been doing fine until recently . I believe Its because I possibly need to be on a new medicine . My body seems to be rejecting the lamictal that I am currently taking and have been taking for the past 5 maybe 6 years . I guess I'm kind of curious  to see if this has happened to anyone else and what their opinion is & what I should do ? I know It probably won't matter but I have it in my mind to write a letter to corporate about how I was treated even prior to this event . He (My manager) made me feel unwanted , disrespected , and like I was a burden . don't people understand that we may feel this way sometimes about ourselves and having to come out to anyone and say this you really don't know what to expect when you tell people you have  Epilepsy . It Just shocks me this is the first time I have been treated this way by an employer . The last Job I was at for two years my Boss and my co workers were AMAZING . It shows there are still hard hearted people out there with no comp*****ion . I wish there was some legal right I could take but I doubt there Is . has this ever happened to anyone on here ? And also how would you take this and feel about the situation if you were in it ? Hope I haven't bored you to tears and hope to hear from you lol xoxo ~ Lexie =)]]></description>
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		<title>work</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86287</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-03-03T10:02:41 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>Polly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Since we got married 20 years ago I stopped working excepted for selling Avon because I was not controlled; I am finally controlled.  Back then employer always found reason for getting rid of me.  The doctor he took me to got me on a drug that one of the side effects where seizures which the  doctor never told you.  Instead of helping stop them it caused them.  We kept telling him it that is did not work.  His staff told me to have him take me off it.  He finally did when I did what his staff told me because they where getting white blood counts that where going up and down.  He has me on a new one which I am finally controlled.  I tell my husband that I can drive after 6 month seizures free but he is worried that the community would talk. I do have three college degrees one is a Clerical Secretary, I also have several cl*****es through Ford Motor Company.  Polly]]></description>
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		<title>work</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86286</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-03-03T10:00:33 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>Polly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Since we got married 20 years ago I stopped working excepted for selling Avon because I was not controlled; I am finally controlled.  Back then employer always found reason for getting rid of me.  The doctor he took me to got me on a drug that one of the side effects where seizures which the  doctor never told you.  Instead of helping stop them it caused them.  We kept telling him it that is did not work.  His staff told me to have him take me off it.  He finally did when I did what his staff told me because they where getting white blood counts that where going up and down.  He has me on a new one which I am finally controlled.  I tell my husband that I can drive after 6 month seizures free but he is worried that the community would talk. I do have three college degrees one is a Clerical Secretary, I also have several cl*****es through Ford Motor Company.  Polly]]></description>
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		<title>can work end my contract?</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=86111</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-02-24T17:33:06 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>sandra.thomas3@sky.com</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Hi guys<br /><br />I began having seziures after the birth of my son in april 08, I was told i had NEAD, and no medication works for NEAD, I was constantly have seizures and being admitted in and out of hospital, in Oct 08, I started to ake tegretol which  has reduced the biggy ones, but still having small ones about 1-2 a week.  <br /><br />I am a support worker who works with adults with challenging behaviour and learning disabilities.  <br /><br />I am awating further eegs, and have kept my employers up to date.  I met up with my manager and he feels they have helped, and feel they cannot help me no more (which is lies, they have not offered me any support, or offered funding for private help), my work have a m*****ive occupational health team who have now closed my case.<br /><br />I met upwith my manager a few weeks ago and he has told me that they may end my contract!, as my seizures are not under control yet!  can they do this? my sick pay does not end until this june,  I am unable to change my medication untill I have the further eegs, and the results, and work are meant to offer me suitable work, i thought?<br /><br />I am so angry as I have worked for this company for 5 yrs and have always given my all.<br /><br />I have an offical meeting next week, I have a unuin rep, but what can I do?  I don't know if i can be bothered with the stress, I just want to enjoy being a new mum, but then I didnt plan on the possibility of loosing my job from having an illness from giving birth.<br /><br />ARHHHHHHHHH]]></description>
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		<title>&quot;Hey, guess what? Your fired! No Wait, just kidding!&quot;</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=85919</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-02-17T16:38:39 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>Gina1978</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Hello everyone! <br /><br />My name is Gina. I am new to this, so you'll have to excuse me. I just realized that I posted this in the wrong section of the forums, so I have decided to repost in hopes of getting some more advice.<br /><br />I have been working with my current job for almost a year now here in CO. I have been having some issues with my meds (which could be because of the altitude or the low grade meds I am on), that has caused me to have about 6-7 seizures while I have been employed with the company. At one point , they asked for documentation, so I brought two letters from two different doctors. No problem. Both of my bosses knew about my seizures and that was that. <br /><br />Thursday morning, my boss called to inform me that I no longer had a position within the company. I had almost seen this coming from a mile awhile away because they had been screwing up on my schedule (which caused me to miss a day last week), and my job was continually being threatened for one reason or another. I asked him why he was firing me. He clearly was expecting me to just take what he said and be ok with it because after stuttering over his words for a few minutes, he told me it was because of my absences. I made him aware that 95% of my absences were due to my epilepsy and that he couldn't fire me because of that. His anger got the best of him and after getting into it a bit, he ended up hanging up the phone. Again, making it VERY clear that I had no position within the company. <br /><br />So I went to pick up my things. Within a 1/2 hour or so of leaving with my things, my "boss" was calling me back claiming that he was not made aware of my seizures and that he had called the corporate office. He said that I was on some sort of personal leave and that I would hear from the office, and he hung up. <br /><br />After not hearing from corporate, I called them Friday morning and asked for an explanation of what was going on. She said that I was not fired, that I was on "personal leave" and I would be recieving paperwork in the mail that I would have to fill out, have my doctor fill out, and return to the corporate office. My doctor would have to put restrictions in this letter and if the restrictions were able to be met, I would have my job back. Well, I got the letter and not only do they want restrictions that I do not have, they want me to release all medical records to them pertaining to my epilepsy and how it affects my work. <br /><br />I told her I was confused, because I had already provided these restrictions. I told her my bosses knew full well of my situation and have known the whole time I was employed there. I said I would feel very uncomfortable going back to an environment that would OBVIOUSLY be hostile one because they have been so anxious to get rid of me. I also asked if I could just take the firing (because I could atleast collect the unemployment). She said that was not possible and if they decided that I could return to work, and I didn't wish to, that I would be basically giving up my job. <br /><br />Do I have some sort of case here? This seems VERY wrong to me, and the people that have given me just the smallest time of day don't even give me a chance to tell my whoel story. How am I supposed to go back to this kind of environment? People are already talking about the fact that I am fired and no one is doing anything to fix it. I feel as though I have been very wronged here. Do I jump through these hoops? Do I release my medical information? Or do I just say forget this terrible part time job and move on to something better? I feel so beagten down...]]></description>
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		<title>Long term work problem</title>
		<link>http://www.epilepsyfoundation.org/efforums/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=6&amp;threadid=85768</link> 
		<pubDate>2009-02-13T06:50:58 -05.00</pubDate> 
		<dc:creator>irish2welsh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Hi 
Here we go about 4yrs ago I was working as a security officer on shifts, I had told my boss that I suffered with mild epilepsy about 10yrs ago. They started to think about changing our shifts from 8hrs to 12hrs I didn't mind this at all. We had to go for a medical. The nurse asked me all the questions which I was dreading. Nothing in the past had been written on paper. I had to tell her about my epilepsy, the first thing she said this could be the best thing for me e.g. DDA then I had a bout of my CP in front of her. I've had these plenty of times in the past and coped easily with it. But she said I had to go in front of the College Dr. After the consultation and the reports from my neuro and GP I received a letter saying that I was not safe "no lone working". I explained to everybody do you know what this means the job that I did was working alone most of the time. Also that I couldn't go anywhere without anybody with me. This went on for about 6mths, I was still doing the work that they said that I wasn't safe to do. I was asked one day to come to a meeting to discuss the situation. The next day a van came down to pick me up, alarm bells rang because another security officer releived me of my post. I went into the meeting to be met by my boss head of HR and other persons. I immediately asked for a third party to be with me. They didn't know what to do with my situation so they had decided to suspend me on full pay until further notice. I was asked if I wanted transport home, I immediately told them where to go I'd walk home first.

This went on for an yr back and forth, I explained to them who to get in touch with and what I could do as an employee. I was lucky that I had told everbody about my E, the reason I was put into an office job was that I had p*****ed an NVQ level 2 about 10yrs ago.

Also the redeployment officer was a friend of mine, I can go up to him and tell him anything about the way I feel. I was put into this office about 3yrs ago after trouble in another site. They didn't realise what my main problem is memory. The woman that has left about a yr ago was fantastic she devised methods and tools to help me , forms for the staff to write on to explain what they required and for a certain date. She kept the pressure off me.
In the last yr the office structure has changed. There is a new occupational health nurse and a secretary. The nurse is not a personal fella, also the secretary is a climber.
To cut the story short I've got in touch with my boss and the redeployment officer explaining my situation. A yr ago under the last secretary (she was a friend and always knew how I felt)I was supplied with work in portions because of my memory probs.
Now I'm coming to work most days to sit in front of a computer just trawling the internet it's demoralising. My history in work was that I was employed in another department for 20yrs until Health and safety decided I was not capable or it was a danger for me to carry on doing my work. If you knew me I am more than capable of doing anything.
Psychologically this is destroying me, I've explained and argued with the wife, epilepsy nurse and the establishment. The answer I get is I'm getting payed, they (the establishment) have done nothing wrong they've kept up to the DDA.
But what they don't understand is it's destroying me coming to work to do nothing. Especially when I can help people out there. In one way I wish they would dismiss me so that I could take them to court for the way they have treated me for the last 6yrs psychologically.


In the past I've gone to conferences to talk about my experiences this is one of my speeches

John J Flynn   -   Patient's perspective (Person living with Epilepsy)

"Once the shock has worn off  -  maintaining quality of life"

I have always been a very active sort of person, running Marathons playing squash. The first time I had an attack of Epilepsy was 25 yrs ago, it was a shock to me. It was weird I was walking along the road from my house to my Dad's, when I had a dreamy feeling next thing blank. Came around about 10 mins later in front of my own house.

I went to my doctor immediately I was scared stiff as I thought I was losing my mind. By talking to the Doctor he told me the only thing that could've caused an attack of Epilepsy could have been a head trauma. The only thing I could remember was that a week before this lad hit me and I p*****ed out knocking my head on the road.

 The Doctor referred me to the local Hospital who then referred me to Walton. They ran tests, an EEG and the MRI Scanner; the results showed I had a scarring on the temporal lobe section of the Brain. They told me it could have been the punch and by looking on my notes they saw that I had meningitis when I was 6 yrs old.

For the next month or so I was in a daze was put on medication Tegrettol, like most medications there are side effects. I felt like a zombie lethargic calm and not scared of anything. I had the dosage to take 3 times a day; eventually I contacted a local Epilepsy Support Group. The atmosphere here was like a family, they also confided in me and they re*****ured me.

My type of Epilepsy is Complex Partial I always get an aura (warning) the next thing I'm on auto pilot. Ten minutes can p*****, I can enter the house lock the doors phone the wife. Next thing I come round panicking no memory, where am I, which day is it etc. This lasts for about 5  -  10 mins, then everything comes flooding back.

At the time of the diagnosis I was shocked of the clinical approach to epilepsy, did they know how scared I was. It felt to me like there was no emotion; this is one thing that I personally would voice my concerns about. Still to this day I come across newly diagnosed patients just been sent home with a leaflet about epilepsy. Now because of my confidence I open up to anybody and listen to their problems and try to help them out as much as I can.

I joined a forum on Epilepsy Action this was the best thing I did, it answered all the questions I wanted to hear. From the patients side and not the Doctors, every time I see my Neurologist I feel I'm not a person. It seems like he's looking at my brain not me. The best person I've come across is the Epilepsy Specialist Nurse.

The worst part of epilepsy for me is Memory, but compared to other people what's that. I can run and enjoy life and help others.

About 4 yrs ago I became a tutor for the Expert Patient programme; this to me helped me a lot. It was run over six weeks the first thing I can remember is writing down your worries etc then p*****ing it to the person next to you. Then we had to stand up and read each of our stories out. I couldn't believe what happened next this person reading my story started to cry. The person in question was arthritic couldn't walk far. That person told me that they wouldn't like to lose their memory. We both cried and I explained that I was fit and healthy and could run. This showed me that everybody looks at life in a different way.

Epilepsy still to this day is a taboo subject and the most helpful person I've come across is the specialist nurse. She covers a huge area and is always there for you e.g. phone, mob.  She explained everything in simple terms and always listened and knew when to step in. It felt like she was part of the family the way she treated me, because at the time I was at low ebb. To me the personal touch of the treatment meant everything to me; as I know my epilepsy want get better.

I'd like to thank everybody to let me take part in this venue about neurological conditions, as this is the best way to show people how to convey our problems and feelings.


This is why I'm so cross with any establishments that don't understand that there is more to disabilities, patients need people to turn to and talk.

Can anybody help me to make them understand and that they are stressing me out. I'm having a meeting next week with the local disability people and the redeployment officer to see what they can do as they are part funding my wage.

Thanks everybody
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